solo cruiser looking to meet people, how to start?

the solo meetups are a good start, especially on carnival where they usually schedule them right before a group activity. but you mentioned they can be hit or miss, and i totally get that. i find the trick is to show up a few minutes early and just chat with the host or the first other person there before the 'official' start. makes it way less of a 'walking into a packed room' vibe. for me, i skip the pool deck for meeting people – everyone's either with their group or zonked out on a lounger. bars are better, especially the smaller ones like the alchemy bar on the dream where they do craft cocktails. you end up talking to the bartender or the person next to you waiting for a drink. but my absolute go-to is the trivia events. you can just walk up to a team that's short a person and ask if they need one more. instant in, and you have something to focus on besides the awkward hello. piano bar nights are also solid, especially if you know the songs. people sing along and its a more relaxed, communal feel. ever tried just posting on the facebook group for your sailing before you go? sometimes solos will arrange to meet for the muster drill or the first lunch. takes the edge off day one.

Try a late-night lounge, people are way chattier after 10 pm.