What to do?!

the biggest mistake is making it sound like a problem to fix instead of something you just like watching or thinking about when we first tried that kind of talk i pushed too fast and it turned into a fight before anybody ever saw a room so keep it tiny say hey is it a no forevar or a not now then respect the answer hard if she only says no because she thinks its about cheating or getting compared tell her straight its not a lot of people use the lifestyle word and they hear swingers club then panic 😂 honestly if your no answer makes you resemntful you should get a counselor involved before anything else 🤷